I was thinking, Why this happened to me. Its all my mistakes. I found my answer, “no”, its not all my mistake, Yes its my perception over some person’s activity was wrong. So it’s a wrong one of my believes.
Nothing is permanent in this world then why I prayed for something. Actually I was not aware of prayer and wishes. Now I know that actually I wished for that. And it is supremacy law that “Prayers are accepted and wishes are resigned” .
Now situations are somewhat under control. There is control over feeling, actually healing of emotions is under way.
- When you are feeling too much emotionally hurt. Please never go for decision making.
- Leave the things for which your emotions don’t matter. Means don’t involve in any such activity which makes you feel bad.
- If you are physically hampering yourself due to too much flow of emotions, just cry and cry loudly. You will feel relaxed.
- Please never share your bad situation to any new friend or group. And if you can control yourself, just content to yourself.
- Old Good friends can be helpful, but new group may just force you to take some unusual actions, so just content to yourself, because at last (after this period over) you have to find out what you have done.
- Never hurt anyone even to whom (you think) hurts you, It will provide you a positive energy, which will help you in making decisions in these bad days. Because when you are in depression, there are too much negative energy around you, which force you to behave abnormally.
I have discussed yesterday about the constant of universe. So here we can consider sub-constant i.e. time. So as you will carry on with above restrictions, you will found you way, and will feel good that Although you have been hurt, but actually you haven’t hurt any one that much. So you will feel positive and that will help to gear up for life.
Whatever I have written doesn’t mean that a person must be serious about things all time. If you can manage just do it, otherwise do whatever you want to do. But then others will make way for you, and then you have only way to choose that way. So whenever you take decisions, just think about all little bit.
Enjoy you way. and never think about "termination of Life".
Best of Luck to you all.
Thanks ! Nice collection of thoughts !
ReplyDeleteI have some doubts.
1.Can there be any situation in which only self termination is the ultimate solution or all situations are generalized.
2.Do religious places like temple,church have positive energy.
hi dinesh, here your answerd
ReplyDelete1. Self termination is not a solution, just think about your worst face situation when you have even think that all is over, and there is no reason for you to live. And if you are today here alive means you have some reasons to live here.
“jab hum aaye the is dunai mei to hamei nhi pta tha ki hum kaun hain, ye hamare palne wale the jinhone bataya ki wo hamare maa-baap ya koi aur relation hain. So jo bhi hum karte hai, reason banate hai apne jinda rahne ke, wo sab yahi bane hai. Hum banate hai aur mitate hai ya khud mit jate hai, but hum kabhi kabhi hi sochte hai ki, hum aise jinda nhi rah payenge, but believe me it is just a phase of emotions gambling. matlab ki inhi emotions ki wajah se hi marne ka khyaal aata hai, but marne ke baad emotions hi nahi rahenge. To tumhara jagda apne emotions se hai kisi aur se nahi. So jaise aaye akele the jo bataya gya wo hamne mana, waise hi ab in emotions ko kewal maro, in emotions ko marne ke liye khud ko marna.” Now you better know that not a solution
2. yes there are positive energy that’s helps us in taking our decisions there, that helps us to be stable, and overall makes us feel energized. It can feel easily.
Bahut bahut dhanvad, apko gyan dene ke liye.
ReplyDeleteI try to follow these ideas in my life.
Thx