Its all about "India"

India, one of the most versatile country on the earth. Here you can find many cultures, many rituals, overall a complete diversity of almost everything which can exist on earth. Nature has created India a individual world. Lets talk about its political issues.

India has numbers of issues all around. Our constitution is well manageable and adoptable for new ideas and culture. Here alliance is ruling since last two decades. India have emerges in world map strongly after Kargil-war(1999). We have managed our internal policies very well, so there was nothing like inflation. After few year the whole world faced recession. Economy of all big guns of world fall down, in such conditions they were looking for some new market, where they can sell their product in reasonable rate and create employment to improve their economy. India was the biggest market where whole world can sell their all types of products. This is India where everything you can buy and sell.

In recent time we have come to know about many corruption issues. Since we have organized Common Wealth Games, Indian corruption level starts to come in picture. We have enjoyed media freedom, who have now the authority to film murder, rape etc. in their media rooms. Media has total freedom in India. But this total freedom has not been well managed by government. You can purchase any newspaper  here and will find all types of marketing from front page. You can see all hot models in supplementary pages. You can read garbage articles even in editorial pages. Its all about India, no one blames on itself. Now we are still interest of world, world has no interest in our local policies. They want such government in India which can provide them better opportunity in India for business perspective.

If we deal on local issues, we will find that numbers of demands of public. If we just take a note on issues like creation of new state is no worthy for now. It is okay for now as we have states, A state of size here in India can be managed well. Who is going to enjoy more if we divide all states, of course the direct beneficiary will be the only political leaders, who will get more opportunity to hide our money to his Swiss bank account. A common man will have to force expenses for elections and much more right way.

If we deal about reservation and inclusion of few more minorities in some special reserved groups like SC, ST, OBC. If we continue to rule this reservation system, one day everyone will be minority. The system is made for making system strong not handicap.

If we talks about government policies, they are almost dead. There is nothing new for anything. They have adopted very simple strategy- Let the things to do and after that think what have to do. In India many families have nothing to eat and at storage site anyone can find tons of gains ruined by ugly and lazy policies. LPG, Kerosene oil pricing system, The subsidy provided for these items by government have been  reduced. The taxation has been increased. Indian IT Industry is making good money for India development, but still we are lacking in money distribution among us. We have enough money to submit in Swiss bank. No one is interested to take that back home. The only reason is- “kaun sa mughe kuch milega”. Whenever an issue get public attention government just take some initiative and with time everyone forget and it seems that “now nothing can happen for this regard”. Anna, Ramdev are the latest persons who have got public attention due to some these sort of issues.

All around us, if we take a look, we came to know that we are suffering from laziness and direct-profit-policy-system. Whenever if we are about to get something we do it fast and quickly as during election time, All works in demand just finished less than expected time, but during rest time they prefer to rest. There is need of change in oneself, system will accept your change and follow you.

The World

There are mainly two types of view: Spiritual and Physical(Real world). When we think according to the surroundings and situations we can call it real world thinking. This real world thinking is good for us as it is directly related to our world: The world which we see, where we live, which we feel and plan with that. Its all about the time period which we are spending with this system: The World.

Sometimes we feel something awkward means not as per our expectations. Something happens, which force us to feel something extra. There are already existence of Astral physics and Quantum physics. If we can believe on study we can come to know that in this physical world, whatever we are doing is only meant for here. If you think so according to me you are not absolutely correct. Feeling, emotions( love, care, fear) connects us, force us to feel presence of something which can be termed something like spiritual. If we can get connected with other entities( not well known by us) within this real world, we can expect that whatever we earn here can carry with us in some form. We earn here respect, feelings for others (might be platonic love with someone). I just want to capture the issue of platonic love. The involved person want to continue this love forever. But as per the rule of this world one who has born have to die. No one is allowed to change this. How can such person can continue there love forever. Change is predefined rule of nature so nature wants to reshuffle everything (i.e. feelings and emotions as well).

I have written above paragraph for making understand that each person is equally important in this world, but for world importance differ, each has its own role. System( The world: nature) just implement its ideas and successful idea continues with new one. So as a human being if you feel you are not there, where you should be, you should try with full efforts and in your own way. If your choice is not acceptable by world then world itself take appropriate action and if it find your efforts fruitful, You will enjoy what you want to do. Last thought I want to mention that irrespective of our wishes and other related things, we should always take care of feelings and emotions of others who are currently in same frame, where you are. So its something related to what you earn here that will carry with you forever.

Full Stop.

Many of us do same sort of work like we all eat, drink and sleep. If we take a very short comparison on this, just think these

1. Food is easily available Vs No food is available.

2. Availability of drinking water etc. Vs No drinking water is available near to society.

I don't think that i need to explain this. It all understood that circumstances matter. For some persons  winning is important while for some persons even participation is enough worthy. There are a lot of things which we come to face as well as to  watch in real world, but how we tackle them and how others. The most important thing which you might consider will be the situation of scene. Some persons get help from many while some do all alone. Real life is not to be just defined by knowing the input  and output of situation. Many other considerable things must be considered. So what a person have done is important but the more important is in which circumstances he/she have done it.

Whenever we come to know some situation of someone, we easily conclude and decide what should be there. That may be sometime correct and sometime wrong. when we perceive the situations with the known behavior of that someone's situation, our predictability is more accurate rather that some blind prediction. I just want to say- please as much as you can do, never go for final decisions, just always carry that with modification allowed.

Losing something that is ours is more eventful than getting something new. i don't need to justify this statement, just do it yourself. So prediction and pre-decision making habit sometime destroy someone’s feelings and even existence. So in relations- Let time to play its role and enjoy relations instead of going for the definition of relation.

What Happened

I am fifty year old and as i came to know till now is that "life provides you at least one  opportunity to express yourself to someone or to whole world. Its up to you how much you believe on your beliefs". for expressing that i just penned down a story, just take a look.

I was walking on the road and was very exciting for my new company. In fact I was centralized around this dream. My family have always shown faith in me, and I think this is the only reason behind my success. Today all raw materials including machinery have been purchased and now I have only one plan left for today i.e. to ask my wife to go for one week tour with parents. As I was busy to start my own company I never got time for her and family. My wife(Kavita) has always supported me. I was lucky to find such wife.

As I have planned I asked her for tour, but she want to take some rest. She told me that she is not feeling well. Next day I took her to hospital and there was a very good news for me as I became father. I have no words to explain that happiness. Till today I have planned for a company and now I have to plan for my baby. Now I always felt more energetic so I have done many workouts. As I have planned for my baby I have purchased a lot of gifts and everything which I ever saw with any other baby. My wife wants a baby boy while I have no issues actually I was too excited to hold my own baby in my hands. I want to feel proud when my baby will breath in my arms, When my baby will call me “papa”. Actually I was full of dreams about my baby. Now the center of my thoughts was my baby.

Now the day comes when I become father and I was holding my son in my arms. We named him Shailendra. I was as much happy as I was never before. I want to say to my child that how much I love him. There was nothing more important except him. Kavita was more happy than me and  we find our life more beautiful than ever before.

My company was working good and in very first half yearly results we have shown very high profits and after that we have applied for some projects. For the new projects and money generation I have to attend meeting in Dehradun so I have to go. I wants to spend some more time with my baby. But this work was also important as this will affect my child future. So I leave for one month long meetings. Meeting was good and I got some good financer for my company.

When I came home just after one month, Again I got the call for some more meeting in Libya(Africa) for reviewing the project site. I went there and there I stayed more than two months. So when I was returning back to home, as I landed in INDIA back I came to know that my boy is sick so I rushed to see him . As I reached there doctor declared him dead. My wife fell down on floor and admitted to hospital. I have nothing to say for the situation in I was. I was, I don’t know what I was, where I was. Is really there I was?

After one week my wife get discharged from hospital but she has only pale face. I had never time for her and when she found me in my boy he also leave her. I can’t explain her condition as I even can’t think about her pain. I have no one to who I can show my pain. Now I have to take the control of situation. This was the only way I have to do at that time irrespective of all what happened.

Beauty of dreamz

i was thinking about the patterns, i was wishing that many similar things matter for everyone. I was in dilemma about the feelings and its way of expressing. Suddenly i remember my old friend Niharika. She was good looking and smart girl when we were of sixteen. She was too bold to handle boys, i was expecting the reason might be that many boys used to propose her regularly. I was thinking that she didn't love anyone. i was her good friends, but i always kept myself away from all her heroic acts. Some of the boys who proposed her were my good friend as well. she always told me to be away from those boys and with time she was only my friend left. But as we completed our graduation she fall in love with someone. She told me that she love Vinod khatri. Vinod was known as bad-boy "Gunda". He has too much attitude. Niharika always discuss about him to me. One day she saw him with few girls, She came to know about her relations with many girls. She felt really bad, she was feeling that she had never given any importance to anyone's feelings so she is facing this today. she encouraged herself and just thought to forgot everything. One day i saw she was crying as loud as she can, she was on the terrace of very high under-construction building. She saw me as i has seen her, she hugged me tightly. I frightened with her next move. But i was feeling something good, i realized that she is also a girl. That time she share all her inner-emotions with me. That day i came to know that as i know her since last eight years but i have never imagined her such nature. She has the one of most beautiful heart, which was full of love and lovely emotions. I found her so beautiful as i have thought about my hubby one. Since that we both become one of the best friends of world. Now we both always discuss everything, we talk on phone, on chat-server. Overall she was healing her emotions, but in that process i was just ready to hurt my emotions. Very soon i realized that i am in love with her. She told me that she was lucky that Vinod didn't came in her life because he was not his type, she always tell me that she don't know why she liked him. But here i know very well why i like her, and want to express my feeling. I tried many times to show my feelings for her but she never take any special attention on my activities. I was trying too much. One day she ringed me and told to come at her home in good dress. I thought may be she understand my activities and now want to introduce me in some other way to her parents. i reached there and saw a small gathering was there as someone was there at her home to see her. The boy was well educated MBA person and have very high earning. boy was looking very smart and simple. His voice was very affluent and affective. Boy liked her and told that he only want to know her wish. Niharika was impressed with her straight forwardness and simplicity, she said she needs some more meetings if he has no objection. Boy agreed and they meet two times after that and both agreed to marry.
i saw her first time so happy and i don't want to ruin her happiness by showing my unrequited love. She got what she deserves and now its my turn to heal my emotions. its a series of healing and hurting, this is the life. The beauty of life is not known by life itself, it depends on the bearer of that persons perceptions and actions.

Enjoy Beauty

Dead Approach for life

In some situations we are forced to take some decisions, we have to maintain some balance in all around us. We have to show ourselves as very good person. Hopefully you are not getting what I am trying to say but now read little more. Sometime when some one close to us blame us for very little things or leave us due to misunderstanding or anything else which feels us alone due to loss of one single person. There are two very nice words attachment and intimation. We show our attachments and intimation both to that person by believing on him/her and by all means to show our faith and respect in him/her.

Now that person have left you alone, you have one primarily choice to attempt again to get in touch with him/her. But after all your positive attempts to be with him/her you move to feel negative like- “I have no reason to live without him/her” or you loose confidence in yourself and due to that you lose in all your activities. Now you think always negative and due to that you might become sick (body and mental). Sometime you even don’t know the proper reason of that. You feel alone and for that you want to just be with that one who you have already lost from your life. Some people become self-centric while some become that person centric. In both situation person felt disturbed and he/she may attempt some immature actions like suicide or become solace. In both situation person tried to get out for some positive.

In these sort of situation you should be in touch with your good friends. Just share whatever you want to say to yourself. Few will show sympathy and few will make laugh of you. But in both situation you have something to think more, means you will busy in understanding the thoughts of your friends and you will try to make a common thought about yourself. So for that you will do something. As you will busy in these sort of activities, few months would have been passed and when you again remember about all those you will feel less pain and there might be something which might have the capability to change your way of approach and also there might be a complete makeover of all those bad situations. As you are now more mature and also you have come to know that what and how a person can thought about anyone’s welfare, happiness, care and everything to feel other one happy.

Keep calm and silence if you can’t think positive in worst situation and think as you are not fit for these situations (one more negative approach but final one) so just do nothing until you again get the ability to think positive.