India what are problems and where

Anyone can say easily:
    1. Population
    2. Poverty
    3. Corruption
I think with these three everyone(most of us) agreed.

If we come across the world we will find that most of country with resources as we have are too stable than us. the sentence means that we are growing like a mob without proper direction. if mob is not managed properly "it kills itself".
There are numbers of changes in Indian society. Due to too many diversity, few changes effects some group and untouched other. so if plan commissioning is not according to all the division creates. Let me tell you about division:
    Division is "what a people know" and "what a people think". When a "people know situation" it creates there limits and also provides few powers. but when "people think situation" there is something revolution type. What i mean that is " ek majdur janta hai ki wo majdur hai, wo acche se kaam krta hai. lekin jab wahi majdur ye sochta hai ki wo sirf ek majdur hi to hai, wo demolarise ho jata hai. aur mauke ki talaash mei rta hi ki jaldi se majdur tamge se bahar nikal jaye."
so when there is a mob you have to maintain a proper synchronisation ,so need of good leadership. now come direct to point.

1. Population: what population means and effects- population simply means increase in number of living people. and it may affects society in good way as well as bad way. Unfortunately our population increases really in village/rural areas, that enforce the increase of urban area population by migration. so if we mention that "need invent inventions", we can enjoy it also, but if we let the things to turn automatically in any way, we are seriously hurting ourself. Now due to huge population man power is available in technology also, we have thousands of skilled technical person who are underpaid. freshers are behaved like "baduwa majdur" (with company big bond amount). and we are almost no. 1 in IT outsourcing. so it due to because IT Industry managed Indian skills in their own need. so it is like to work for other always. you need time to know yourself. so population can be helpful also. but yes in rural area we still need to make people aware of population.
2. Poverty: Undoubtedly the biggest problem, but can be handled with making a "known division" by providing them few local authority. Its not too difficult, just plan and identify that, just reduce dependency on rich people. let make them realize themselves, that will progressively improve their coming/growing generations.
3. Corruption: Just shut the door. its not a back door entry it from front, so proper distribution of knowledge and information make things simple. as now days information is distributing because its "right to know act". and media came all these in our knowledge. so simple we are just taking all money back from that so called corrupted peoples. so if everything come to know at right time then there a total control over corruption. these things are not of individual, its team work. so easy to manage, just think.

Now you can add or rectify whatever you want to.

Emotions never die.....

What are the most beautiful aspect of life. I think personally it is emotions. Emotion has many form like energy, in each form it has many variations. so it is creator of situation. Lets on my behalf assume it a "spirit".
so if we are hunting GOD or any supernatural power, and if we have to search inside us. just assume on my behalf till end of this, after that you will on yours. Emotions are "spirit", which governs us. I am not going to explore emotions, its you who will explore for yourself.

Since our birth one can see the most beautiful on this earth is "mother". WHY IT IS?
yeah of course we all know that the devotion and emotions all which she has for her child, makes her "GOD". i might be wrong, but most of us think same.
like mother never think anything wrong for her baby, although her baby is right or wrong. she always see her baby through different eye (special) as she creates her baby inside her, that creator "GOD".

Come to nature. What nature does.
There are numbers of persons who used to think about person(specific), society, family, world, nature, welfare, devils and much more. we starts assuming and dreaming, we just explore that and want to know more and more, we just come more closer to that, and we plan for that.. because we are now attached because we have spent time on it, and now its our attachment for that. can you say it any form of emotions.
Let due to something you have to leave that out. you could not carry on with that. Possible reasons may be unavailability of any side may be you have gone or other side have been gone out of track (if a person then possible Death).
Many things are not our control we can somehow interpret nature but never be sure of that.

Now back to emotions.
Emotions are totally not in our control.
examples:
    a. If a person love someone, it can't be always sure of same form other side.
    b. If a person do always good deeds, he can never always be sure same for itself.
    c. If a person is expert of anything, he can never always be sure to success.
Although possibility is high that, if you have something you will have that thing, thats the reason whatever you do for others, you get almost same from other. the reason is that you are more capable of receiving that, rest things also approach to you, but you still wait your one.
so the thing is that, If a person have very smart control on its emotions. he is perfect in this world.
What this means : This means stability of energy. predictability of a person nature, thats the most of us search for, aren't you?.

One day you born, you have emotions, Another day you died, you have left your emotions in this world to you close ones. They will remember your move and memorable moments, when they face something related. so emotions never die...

GOD never die, it "avatar" which die and live again and again. its emotions which seems died but we see their  living again "history repeats itself". as some of us assume "we die and live again".
so ".......  die and live again". what that mean. percieve your own thought.
I'll hopeful for your comments.

Wishes n Prayers

What these words means wish means: when we need something and we starts feeling about that, we starts  wishing that very moment. prayer means: When we want to do but we have not the way to do that, we starts praying.
"one can say : Prayers are accepted by supremacy (GOD). and wishes are resigned."
What it means God listen prayers because since when he creates earth and its living elements, he has gone through too many changes. he used to do experiments by evolving new ideas. In prayers mostly we go for someone else. we pray for humanity. the best thing we ever do. God just check the intimacy level of feelings by which he making the life span interesting.
Why god do not take too much interest in wishes because wishes are basically like a dream, we usually think something very nice for us and we starts wishing for that. here God thinks its man product due to his feelings, so its that human part to go for those wishes fulfillment.

Mapping of time and Ocean:
we live a very small part of time, means before we took birth on earth crores years have been passed, and as we can predict after us also crores or even more years. so make count of your time .As "The world is forgetting by the world forgot".
Enjoy life but always think for reasons. the amount of time we spend we leads to some known maturity. make best of time. you can never go back to time and modify what you have done, so always ensure that whatever you have did good, you are going to makeover of most. a continuity will increase your faith in yourself and you will be benefited by your actions in terms of trust of others, who will remember after you forget them.

Suicide : conclusion

Hi friends,
i have already discussed too much about human mental situations. people around the world feels and create a status for themselves. due to some reasons if they have to suffer and their is some degradation by society or close group, then a person is hurt badly and in such situation such issues arises.
Let me clear on more things, many studies propose that such cases can be stopped by identifying that person. but it is not. If a person is sure to commit suicide or such activity, it is almost impossible for anyone to judge their such activity. Here i write not for media, i write for real mental situation of life.

What study reveals:
1. Developed areas are more affected by such cases than developing or undeveloped areas.
2. Below 40 is the stage of life where 90% such activities come in picture.
3. Divorce, dowry, love affairs, cancellation or the inability to get married (according to the system of arranged marriages in India), illegitimate pregnancy, extra-marital affairs and such conflicts relating to the issue of marriage, play a crucial role, particularly in the suicide of women in India.
4. Study suggests that specific focus in suicide prevention strategies should be on the migrant population.
5. Hanging was the commonest method used by the subjects. Some hospital-based Indian studies had revealed that insecticide poisoning was the commonly employed method in committing suicide.
6. The preferred timing is Day time for such actions.

Laws to prevent:
In India, attempted suicide is a punishable offence. Section 309 of the Indian Penal Code states that "whoever attempts to commit suicide and does any act towards the commission of such an offense shall be punished with simple imprisonment for a term which may extend to one year or with a fine or with both".

10 th September - World Suicide Prevention Day: The World Suicide Prevention Day was formally announced on 10 th September, 2003. Each year the International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) in collaboration with WHO uses this day to call attention to suicide as a leading cause of premature and preventable death. The theme for the year 2007 is " Suicide Prevention-Across the Life Span".

so make your own perception...............................

Self-Termination or Suicide

jist of this post:
"what we are, just part of time. we was not few time ago, and we will not here few time after. But the journey of time will keep going on."


How these both words sounds. self-termination refers to देहत्याग in hindi. while suicide refers to खुदकुशी.
Why one should opt for these both. i don't think any reason to go for that. but might be you thought many reasons.

many of us are familiar with suicide. so i point out few reasons:
1. one think if we are without reason living our life. or our reason of live itself died.
2. love relationship is most probable reason
3. Some assaulted moments, that make life a threat by society.
4. self discrimination

while if dealing with self-termination
one can opt self termination, if he had decided for suicide type events, but due to responsibility he extends his plan so few reasons
1. if you are too much sad n now you have no social responsibility for which you will be claimed later.
2. your life has no reason to live. you feel bored and have not control on yourself.

But as a human i will never prefer for anyone of these, My reasons:
1. each living being is a part of system, no one is perfect here. system learn from different diversity. so whatever you think is a part of society,
don't compare yourself with anyone else. you will not feel comfortable, because when you start to look around you. you will find that each one has
more perfection in what you think yourself.
so system needs something new, just innovate yourself may be system get something out of it.
2. what we are, just part of time. we was not few time ago, and we will not here few time after. But the journey of time will keep going on. so nothing to worry, just live dude what you have to do, no one will count you if you have not made your presence count. so check your time.

Think what you can think and make your presence count.

What we used to think and what we think, is both resembles to same.

yes you will say both are same but in normal circumstances, when everything is according to our expectation, if anything occurs for which we are not ready then only we are ask for such unusual questions. why these mean only that time, because at time only we are ready to do something different, might be good might be bad, depend upon situation in which we are living and our mind setup.

so what we think is not what we used to think. Each person creates his imagination world, he lives in his dream world and try to map that with real world. so the mapped success makes that person internally strong. I am not telling that if you are not living in imagination world then you are loosing anything. it is up to you, how you plan your life, your dreams and your approach towards things, although you will find each is inter related, but it will much simple if you keep all these alone and think situation specific. living in life is the collection of good time, for those you should always look forward.

Thank you
Hopefully you will find yourself at right door at right time.

Stability of life

We human always try to enjoy all situation irrespective of our environment. so we change ourself according to environment, but the thought of day might become thought of your life. so we always ready to adopt the things which favours us. lets discuss few phases of life:
Under Graduate phase: This is the phase from childhood to graduate phase.
In this phase a person learns everything from environment. Whatever he thinks, he do is action of someone else. His source of knowledge may be his parents, his friends or any other media (TV, movies). In this phase he learns thoughts and simulate himself from that source. so it is the age when a person is ready to learn.
Graduate phase: This phase is just a thin line between under graduate and after graduate phase.
After Graduate phase: This phase starts after under graduate phase. In this phase a person is behaved as matured person. He starts thinking his ideas, but he is not now ready to learn very new things, he first see the things then he experience and understand, and finally he conclude that is it for him or not. He starts to take decision with some reference. so it is something related to stability. a person thinks about himself till that phase, so now he can't let these experience go.

Moral: Whatever we do, if it is not according to the expectation from us, it is not considered worthy for us. so if you are able to make your work count, then only you are stable.