Full Stop.

Many of us do same sort of work like we all eat, drink and sleep. If we take a very short comparison on this, just think these

1. Food is easily available Vs No food is available.

2. Availability of drinking water etc. Vs No drinking water is available near to society.

I don't think that i need to explain this. It all understood that circumstances matter. For some persons  winning is important while for some persons even participation is enough worthy. There are a lot of things which we come to face as well as to  watch in real world, but how we tackle them and how others. The most important thing which you might consider will be the situation of scene. Some persons get help from many while some do all alone. Real life is not to be just defined by knowing the input  and output of situation. Many other considerable things must be considered. So what a person have done is important but the more important is in which circumstances he/she have done it.

Whenever we come to know some situation of someone, we easily conclude and decide what should be there. That may be sometime correct and sometime wrong. when we perceive the situations with the known behavior of that someone's situation, our predictability is more accurate rather that some blind prediction. I just want to say- please as much as you can do, never go for final decisions, just always carry that with modification allowed.

Losing something that is ours is more eventful than getting something new. i don't need to justify this statement, just do it yourself. So prediction and pre-decision making habit sometime destroy someone’s feelings and even existence. So in relations- Let time to play its role and enjoy relations instead of going for the definition of relation.