"kabhi-kabhi kuch riste kuch ehsaas bojh ban jate hai, kya hame unhe give up kr dena chahiye". We are living in this beautiful world. Creator have created many beautiful things. Many things of this world we like and many we dislike. When we deal with person specific , we met too many peoples daily or in our life. Some of them become our good friends, some enemies and few become reason of lifeline. As we spend time with our lifeline persons, and if we come to know that our choice was not as per our expectations then we start compromising with our expectations. These compromises makes us feel sometime very bad, that time we think to give up that relations or feelings or whatever we identify them at that time, because as a relation progress it tend to redefine itself with time.
Reasons :
1. Healthy friendship, now turned down due to some personal reasons (mostly girl-friends)
2. Love life, if there is no proper understanding and communication
3. Family, now feels like collection of all type of irritation
4. Relatives, now so selfish.
All hurt only intensity differ, and that matter most. The relation from which we expect "how much", that impacts "that much". so lover and family matters most. relatives and friends usually we forget with time, but usually we don't want to forget our family and love-life. normally family is big deal so there is always a hope to all-settle-down. but lover is single person. if there is no proper communication and understanding, things starts effect everything. If we allow anyone to understand ourself, then it easy to patch up that spot, otherwise situation creates hurdle for both. so its you who is creating problems. Girls are forced to bind with change so they somehow find herself busy with nature-system. but boys makes out himself from existing system and they try to creates their, they find themselves alone and in memory they have recent bad ones incidents. If a person get stick in that he have to suffer, he should adopt nature-system. just be little more calm and you will find yourself more balanced. Just try to be, you will surely be.
"People respect only whom who shines with talent. only talent or only shine, people feel sympathy only."
"sympathy is sympathy always, everyone search your weak spot, don't expose that. show your strong side :everyone follow you, respect you."
sympathy never creates "LOVE", its always sympathy. there is following and respect which creates "LOVE". its natural if many loves you all will love you. "sab kuch ek-dusare ko dekh kr krte hai, pyaar bhi vyapaar bhi. aur jo apne aap ho jata hai, usme kisi ka koi adhikaar nhi hota (no demand)". so when you feel something is not good for you, its you who have the choice: choose correct one, why waiting for other decision, make yours: If you can't leave that, feel like you have left. All is matter of time, so don't stick to single time let it change. lets TIME to do its job, you do yours.
Find yourself at your risk
Reasons :
1. Healthy friendship, now turned down due to some personal reasons (mostly girl-friends)
2. Love life, if there is no proper understanding and communication
3. Family, now feels like collection of all type of irritation
4. Relatives, now so selfish.
All hurt only intensity differ, and that matter most. The relation from which we expect "how much", that impacts "that much". so lover and family matters most. relatives and friends usually we forget with time, but usually we don't want to forget our family and love-life. normally family is big deal so there is always a hope to all-settle-down. but lover is single person. if there is no proper communication and understanding, things starts effect everything. If we allow anyone to understand ourself, then it easy to patch up that spot, otherwise situation creates hurdle for both. so its you who is creating problems. Girls are forced to bind with change so they somehow find herself busy with nature-system. but boys makes out himself from existing system and they try to creates their, they find themselves alone and in memory they have recent bad ones incidents. If a person get stick in that he have to suffer, he should adopt nature-system. just be little more calm and you will find yourself more balanced. Just try to be, you will surely be.
"People respect only whom who shines with talent. only talent or only shine, people feel sympathy only."
"sympathy is sympathy always, everyone search your weak spot, don't expose that. show your strong side :everyone follow you, respect you."
sympathy never creates "LOVE", its always sympathy. there is following and respect which creates "LOVE". its natural if many loves you all will love you. "sab kuch ek-dusare ko dekh kr krte hai, pyaar bhi vyapaar bhi. aur jo apne aap ho jata hai, usme kisi ka koi adhikaar nhi hota (no demand)". so when you feel something is not good for you, its you who have the choice: choose correct one, why waiting for other decision, make yours: If you can't leave that, feel like you have left. All is matter of time, so don't stick to single time let it change. lets TIME to do its job, you do yours.
Find yourself at your risk
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