Teenagers in undeveloped area are more crime-prone than other fields. As teenagers feels the change in their body, and specially girls gets too much attention of public. In developing or developed areas at teenage teenagers have not much time to feel, they have too much study pressure and fear of respect of their family.
while in undeveloped or slum areas, teenagers have all time to feel about themselves, they need only food and shelter. no other demand they search their nearby. They see their parents and their elder ones. as there is different type of self respect, meanings they have changed. their self respect means only w.r.t. themselves. there in only one entity, they live together for food and shelter only. no special meaning of parent and other god-gifted relations.
"the atmosphere seems like typical Indian culture". Everyone here is in hunt of some sort of respect and love. if any person become generous or kind anyhow they feel they have also some meaning.
These people generally think they are not part of upper system. they have less meaning of their life. they knows only that they have born to earth, so they have to live as they can, doesn't matter too much "how they live" they left everything on nature or god. what other have done they have to follow that. so they get trap easily both teenage girls and boys.
Girls of these areas generally got too much attention from their local boys. so at this age they find something that feel them love, they knew the reason of this love, but they don't want to lose that love as they think all do same, as in cinema also. so they both started sexual relationship.Now i talk from a girl's role because they dominate there too. She wants to share her happiness with her friends. so it now become a trend there and each one is engaged with someone. She have dreamed something good, her partner will do some magic "chamatkaar". but nothing new. Now she find that what they have found is not, what they were searching for. Till now they were enjoying, but now start thinking about their future and fortune. Their search of love has been finished, now they need something new. they starts day dreaming. they think they knows their partner very well, they just think to implant good deeds in their partner. but they start mapping those things, what they have not. Their partner must have acchi aadatein. This starts making weak the "relationship knot" as they think he/she had not done this for me, then how he/she will keep relation with me. A self generated clash comes to existence and very soon it ended with end of relation. ("there is no break of relation, they directly move to end of relation) and surprisingly very soon they switch to another relation. the whole life they try to live happy and in search of that they go for many unwanted moves and makes their life complex and that turns them to a bad social animal(not saying harmful).
So why i discuss here...
because now we know that how they (most of them) become such person who is not liked by educated society. so what we can do to change their environment or their thinking approach.
you all are welcome to comment on this issue and pls tell what you think and what you want to do.
Thanks for giving a rear view of the slum teenagers.I think you have written this post after a very deep level of study and knowledge.
ReplyDeleteI want to say that there are many NGOs and social organization who are working for the development of the slum areas .They are trying to provide education,health facilities there.But i don't think any organization has ever thought of this aspect till now.It's actually very important for the social and mental development the slum areas that units working in slums should take some initiative in this direction too.Because thoughts project a person and person projects the society .
@dinesh:
ReplyDeletethanks dude and very well said "thoughts project a person and person projects the society".
looking for something concrete from your side.
Thanks Ajay,to think about it.
ReplyDeleteI think that goverment provide lots of facility to improve everyone from base.
one general things says that,jaha chah, vaha raah.For improve of family generation , atlist one generation should be fight,against condition.
if one generation will fight in comlex envirment and tought his family then from next generation surely their problem will end from next time. so if any one not get path of growth, then for it ,he is only responsible for it. their is need of self improvment.